Fiction Soup (and Memoir!) Workshop


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Fiction Soup

The Fiction Soup Workshop is 8 weeks of inspiring writing prompts, feedback, and positive support to fuel your fiction story writing.

* Exercises designed to elicit fiction short and long stories

* Professional and supportive feedback from both Brooke and seasoned peer writers in the group

* Excellent for creating original work, polishing existing drafts, or working on your memoir writing too!

* For one round of the Fiction Soup workshop we will have a cameo appearance and feedback from author, editor, and managing editor of SISTERS AWAKENING PRESS— LaYinka Sanni! LaYinka is one of my very favorite poets and a powerhouse of a writing educator and editor. So excited to have her join us!

Begins December 1st 2015

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Talking Business with The Shawl Label for SISTERS Magazine


For the October issue of SISTERS Magazine Aida Azlin explained to me how “It’s all about Sisterhood” with her fresh and exciting clothing (and tech stuff!) business.

Brooke Benoit: The idea of entrepreneurship can be really terrifying. At what point did you know that this was your path? And how did you prepare yourself to walk it?

Aida Azlin: I don’t think there is any perfect formula that will ever prepare you to walk on the path of entrepreneurship! I’ve always thought that I was an “accidental entrepreneur” because I never really set out to be one. But I now realise that there are no accidents in life, as everything is beautifully and perfectly planned by Allah.

Early in our marriage, when my husband and I were seriously considering moving back to Morocco, my husband asked me, “What do you want to do when you are back in Morocco, Aida?” I remember telling him that I really wanted to learn how to quilt and sew. I wanted to source for fabrics and just spend my days working with my hands. My husband was the one who suggested to me that “You should really consider selling shawls. Everyone wears them anyway!”

To be honest, I was very, very, very, very hesitant about it. I felt that there were already too many shawl sellers out there, and they were all doing a brilliant job. But I contemplated the idea for a while, never quite dismissing it completely nor embracing it fully.

When we got to Morocco, that’s when my perspective changed. It’s true what they say – the space that you are in can really inspire you and change the way you see things. I saw how “entrepreneurship” was so common in Morocco – almost everyone I know here has a small shop or trade, selling or offering some product or service. But there are no fancy labels like “startups” or “entrepreneurship” – people just do what they know how, and this taught me something valuable: that being an entrepreneur is far from just having website launches, or flashy marketing gimmicks, but truly, it’s about human interactions, trust, giving your best in the product you are selling and standing by your word. It’s also about working hard and starting with what you already have.

TSL 3BB: Almost everything on your website is sold out (masha Allah)! To get first dibs on monthly new releases, sisters must subscribe to your newsletter. Why are you operating like this – staying small – since you obviously have a bigger demand?

AA: When I first started The Shawl Label (TSL) my niyyah (intention) was to always serve the sisters first (and still is). Profit is always secondary. By focusing on serving and prioritising the ladies on our mailing list, we have, alhamdulillah, been able to serve more than 3000 sisters from around the world, and to sell out multiple times. When ladies sign up to our love letters (we don’t call them newsletters, because I really treat every single email that I write to them as a love letter, where I share things that I don’t share anywhere else), I treat that as a huge honour. Because liking and following a brand on social media is easy, but to give your email is another commitment altogether! And when ladies allow me to be in their Inbox, I treat that privilege and responsibility very seriously!

The love letters are also one of the best ways where I get to connect on a one-on-one basis with the Sisters. And this is extremely important to me. Having an online business doesn’t really give us much chance to have real life interactions, so our love letters allow me to not only share valuable content to the ladies, but to also build trust and build solid friendships. Alhamdulillah, I’ve been blessed to have many of my “customers” now as friends (a perk of the job, really!).

I also have a strong belief that I’d rather have a small group of people loving us than a massive group of people just merely liking us. So to me, it has never been and will never be about numbers. I’d rather “stay small” and continue building a solid community of Sisters than go big and miss out on all the interactions.

TSL 2BB: Building a brand feels intimidating and like top secret stuff that only a few have access to know-how and master. How are you approaching building the TSL brand? Any secrets?

AA: There are no secrets! It’s all about authenticity. When you are not being authentic and honest, people know. And it’s a turn off, really! Consumers are getting smarter, and people can see right through the fancy schmancy marketing gimmicks/trends. I mean, amazing design and good copy always helps (they are the silent ambassadors of your brand) but at the end of the day, stellar customer service, authenticity and constantly providing real value to your audience definitely sets you apart, insha Allah.

BB: How do you describe TSL’s style? How might your brand be different from other hijab shops/designers?

AA: I’ve strived from the beginning for TSL to be more than just a hijab shop. We focus on making our shawls here in our small little studio in Tangier, and we pride ourselves in creating other purposeful, beautiful products as well, but we also spend a great deal of time doing more than just making stuff. A huge chunk of our energy and time also goes to serving Sisters the world over by equipping and empowering them with the tools to strive for self-betterment, insha Allah. This is done through our TSL Classes / TSL Meet-Ups and every single content we put out there through our social media and especially through ourLove Letters.

Our primary focus has always been the Sisters, not the products per-se. Even if one day we stop making shawls, I will still continue to find a way to serve ladies. I believe that this is my one sole purpose in life, to serve Allah through serving my Sisters. And if selling and making shawls is one of the ways I can do that, then that I will do so with heart and sincerity.

If one day, He wills that I have to stop selling shawls, and make shoes, perhaps – then my approach will still be the same. Sisters first, shoes second.

BB: How did your recent Photoshop workshop go and are you offering it again?

AA: Masha Allah it went waaaay better than what we expected, alhamdulillah! We had Sisters from all over (Singapore, UK, Brunei, Malaysia, Nigeria, Netherlands, US) signed up and it made me feel dizzy with happiness that I am able to share a valuable skill with them. We also have a secret FB Group where all the Sisters post their works, and whenever I see them interacting, posting the art prints they learned to make themselves – my heart swells. I feel like a proud mother, basically!

We have been getting emails to re-open it again, so insha Allah, we will launch it again in November.

BB: Among Muslim startups, there is often some pain particular to this niche, stemming from dealing with international supply companies as well as having customers around the globe, so there are plenty of legal and logistical issues. There are also a lot of different work ethics or lack thereof. Have you found ways to circumvent these problems?

AA: There is no one way to ensure everything runs smoothly, except with a lot of du’a and tawakkul! There was a whole bunch of logistical issues we had to figure out earlier on, which alhamdulillah we have managed to overcome (after lots and lots of du’a!). But the one thing that really helped us out was having solid, reliable and amazing team partners that both understand and believe in our vision. We met many not-so-amazing tailors, vendors and suppliers, but again, with lots and lots of du’a and tawakkul, Allah has also placed in our paths some ‘masha Allah’ individuals as well!

BB: Your main TSL teammate is also your husband, Karim aka K. Spouse co-owned businesses can be extra stressful. How are you two balancing the lines of communication and control in TSL?

AA: Karim is a silent partner in TSL – it actually works pretty seamlessly as we both have very distinct skill sets and strengths. And to be honest, it is working pretty well as it allows me to focus on serving the ladies while he busies himself with the financials and anything and everything marketing related (which are two areas I absolutely hate!) The thing that helped us immensely is that we are both on the same page about where we see TSL in the future, the direction we are heading towards and the ultimate goal (which is to always, always serve the Sisters first). Whenever we get lost or overwhelmed, we always go back to our niyyah (intentions).

I also cannot stress how important it is to listen to each other, to be compassionate and to always, always have each other’s back. Our marriage is the most important to us, so no matter what happens in the business, we always remind each other that we are husband and wife first.

Also, it is imperative to have personal space. My husband and I work separately – me in my studio and him in any local cafe he feels like going to that day – and we always come back to have lunch and/or dinner together. But that few hours on our own really helps us be more productive and gives us a chance to miss each other, lol!

BB: Please explain your small, sustainable business approach – how are you sourcing and hiring, and when people buy TSL products, who are they paying?

AA: We have a small team here in Tangier, with one regular tailor, Sis Sanae (whom I love and adore to bits) and we also have a few packing fairies in Singapore who makes sure all our shawls/orders get sent out to our ladies, all beautifully and promptly packed. We do everything in-house – design, manufacturing, packaging – everything! When you buy something from us, you are not just purchasing a TSL Shawl, you are supporting Sisters both in Singapore and Morocco to live and pursue their dreams. You are supporting a Sisterhood.

To receive a Love Letter from Aida and learn more about her “Big on Sisterhood” business, visit the TSL website:

Brooke Benoit is a SISTERS editor and family business-runner living in Morocco with her food-artist husband and seven unschooled children.

But What About High School? And College?

Originally posted on Blog of Nine:

Unschooling high school feels like the biggest leap of faith so far in our homeschooling journey. If we, The Parents, fail our kids here, then we have failed them for life – or so it feels. I have mostly been happy and confident to facilitate child-led learning over the last 12 or so years, but while standing on the peripheral of their experiences that crescendo of worry has been building up in me as my eldest child got closer to the typical high school graduation age.

For many years I had hoped that my kids would want to eventually try formal schooling, especially high school, as I have heard that many homeschooled kids do. While my second child is pining to do so (but doesn’t currently have the needed language skills to jump in) my first son, Badier, has never had an interest. So, as far as I could see…

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Weekend Update: Chores, Socialization and Fried Food – the need to knows of unschooling


These days most of my blogging (ok, all my blogging!) is happening over here on our family blog – Blog of NineFeatured Image -- 1984

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We are lagging a bit on our posts, already, and I have some guilt about that (I have so much mama guilt in general though, so let’s ignore it), but the kids are doing a lot of stuff and that’s partially why we haven’t coordinated a new post. Here’s what our typical unschooling life is looking like this week:

Big Boys Suggest: Badier and Zak finally looked over our lil blog here, thanks guys! Zak says it looks very professional, thanks WordPress! And then they proceeded to bemoan why we suggested that butt video from Vsauce especially after mentioning the cooler one about everyone jumping on the earth at the same time. Then the Big Boys did this thing they occasionally do, they proceeded to check in with their little sisters to see what they are watching these days. We could call this interest of theirs control-freakishness or we…

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Why Do We Unschool?


Here’s the latest over on my new ‘family’ blog ;)

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Not So WaldorfyWhen I first decided to homeschool it felt like I needed to take in a tremendous amount of new information and very quickly. I suppose like many people I thought that I needed to be an expert of some sort to do it, so I read a lot about homeschooling methods in a very short time. I chose Waldorf-style. I liked it, it jelled with me – using crayons and drawing to learn the alphabet, as well as using other natural materials to learn with, which I have long preferred for myself, and spending a lot of time in and revering nature – this all sounded like good and fun stuff. Homeschooling was going to be fun! We started taking parent-child classes at the local Waldorf school and we both got a lot out of them. He got to bake and play, I got to study a teacher implementing Waldorf…

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Should Husbands Attend Their Wives’ Labor?

Here’s a thing I wrote for

“It’s bad for him to see you like that,” was the vague reasoning that potential care providers explained why my husband would be banned from the birth of our third child if I hired them.

When I responded that he had already seen my first two labors (and obviously he had been able to continue to reproduce, if that’s what they meant) I was shrugged off, the practitioners’ policies remained firm.

Ultimately my husband and I prematurely left our temporary residence in Morocco and returned to the US to have another homebirth. Later I would learn that barring men from attending their wives’ labor is a common practice in many Muslim-majority countries, though for varying reasons and none being evidenced-based.

Will it traumatize him?…

Please read the rest here.

Zak Sketches While You Sleep


Come by and check out our new family blog…

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Yes, we don’t have bedtimes for the kids. Why should we? They don’t have to be up for school in the morning. And we all know about all those studies on teens and early classes and needing more sleep and how stressed they are because of schools ignoring all these findings –right? So the little ones go to sleep when we, the parents, do which if Baba stays up later they stay up with him, but I am really done with the day by 10 pm even if I’m just reading in bed after that. And the bigger ones go to sleep whenever they do, wherever they do. This can and does cause problems with them not being around to help sometimes during midday, (which felt super exasperating during Ramadan!) but we work with that challenge just as plenty of families have to work with, “Go to bed… go to…

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